Work, Life, and the Balance Between
My name is Jay. This website is about my experiences, with a focus on the challenging relationship between work and life, and the struggle to find the balance between them. After more than 20 years as a professional in basically human relations, I wanted to rethink how I present my experiences to the world. I’ve also started to explore the publishing opportunities for a manuscript, Exhaustive Mind, and here a landing spot for this content.
This is not meant to be a resume, or a blog really. It’s not meant to do anything more than paint a picture to help illuminate my perspective on the world around me. I hope you enjoy following along, and learning how I got here.



Work
Helping humans solve problems, by thinking like humans.
Life
Father, husband, son, brother, and friend on the same journey as you, this is my path.
Balance
Sharing my perspective on the things that pop up in my brain…enjoy!

- A Sunset & A SunriseAs many of you may or may not know, my time at 10up (now Fueled)… Read more: A Sunset & A Sunrise
- Think Like a DesignerUnlock your exhaustive mind’s true potential by learning to “think like a designer”. This human-centered approach transforms overthinking into a superpower, guiding your thoughts toward innovation. Embrace empathy, prototyping, and strategic testing to solve problems effectively and drive success in every aspect of your life.
- Unlocking Your Inner SuperpowerIs your exhaustive mind a burden or a superpower? I believe it’s the latter. By embracing your constant thoughts and channeling them strategically through analogy, intersection, and patience, you can transform overthinking into a powerful tool for innovation and success in life and work.
- We All Want SomethingNavigating daily interactions reveals that negotiation extends beyond high-stakes scenarios to every exchange. Understanding human agendas, utilizing frameworks like Maslow’s Hierarchy, and recognizing the importance of vulnerability can foster collaboration. By embracing these insights and a comprehensive mindset, we can transform negotiations into opportunities for mutually beneficial outcomes and deeper connections.
- Let’s Talk About It: Mastering Intent, Audience, and Medium in CommunicationIn our interconnected world, communication is the lifeblood of relationships, both personal and professional. It’s… Read more: Let’s Talk About It: Mastering Intent, Audience, and Medium in Communication






